Anand Karaj — meaning "blissful union" or "act of bliss" — is the Sikh wedding ceremony, formalised by the fourth Sikh Guru, Guru Ram Das Ji. It centres on the Lavan — four sacred rounds around Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji, accompanied by the recitation of four hymns composed by Guru Ram Das Ji. The ceremony is not merely a social contract between two families — it is a spiritual journey of two souls coming together in the presence of the Guru and the Sangat (congregation).
Pre-Wedding Ceremonies
The Anand Karaj Ceremony — Step by Step
Arrival at the Gurdwara — both families gather in the presence of Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji. The Granthi (reader) leads the congregation in Ardas to formally begin.
Milni — the formal meeting of families, where corresponding male relatives embrace each other while Ardas is recited. Families are introduced pair by pair.
Shabad Kirtan — devotional hymns are sung by the Ragis (musicians) as the congregation settles. The atmosphere is one of calm joy and spiritual presence.
The bride and groom sit before Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji. The Granthi explains the meaning and significance of Anand Karaj to the congregation.
Pallah Rasam — the bride holds the end of the groom's palla (scarf), symbolising that she is now in his care and he in hers, under the guidance of the Guru.
The four Lavan begin — the Granthi reads each Lavan verse, followed by the Ragis singing it. After each verse, the couple circles Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji clockwise, the groom leading and the bride following, holding the palla.
After the fourth Lavan, the couple is seated. Anand Sahib (the Song of Bliss) is recited, followed by the final Ardas that formally completes the marriage.
Hukamnama — a random verse is read from Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji as the Guru's blessing and guidance for the new couple.
Langar — the ceremony concludes with a shared meal for all attendees, reinforcing the community and equality central to Sikh values.
The Four Lavan — Their Meaning
First Lavan
The couple sets out on the path of righteous living — fulfilling duties to family and community, beginning their life together anchored in dharma
Second Lavan
The couple meets the True Guru — their hearts fill with divine love and they shed ego in devotion to God
Third Lavan
The couple is filled with divine love; the mind no longer wanders but is fixed in loving God's name
Fourth Lavan
The union is complete — the soul finds its home in God. The couple has journeyed together from the world toward the Divine.
Anand Karaj Abroad
- Most major Gurdwaras in the UK, Canada, USA, and Australia can perform Anand Karaj — contact the Granthi well in advance to book the date
- Some families choose to bring Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji to a non-Gurdwara venue (hotel ballroom, family home) — this requires proper preparation of the space with full reverence and must be discussed with the Granthi
- For Sikh-non-Sikh interfaith weddings, many families hold both an Anand Karaj and a civil ceremony or the partner's religious ceremony on the same day or weekend
- Most Gurdwaras abroad maintain a wedding coordinator who can help guide families unfamiliar with the full ceremony sequence
- Document the exact shabd verses used, the names of the Ragis who performed kirtan, and the date and time of your Anand Karaj — these are meaningful family heritage details
💡 Family tradition tip
Save the date, venue, Granthi's name, and the specific shabad from the Hukamnama received at your Anand Karaj on OurParampara. Many families treasure this verse for life — it is considered the Guru's personal blessing to the couple.